A little about me, I am just in recovering stage of 3 yr, terminal illness with husband of 23 yrs .Do not like doing the bar scene there doesn't seem to be quality people in those sort of places,but, I do however like karaoke just for a laugh, I did it one night and due to having on heels fell coming off the stage, in a dress, hope everyone enjoyed that smooth move, call me Grace. I make and design jewelry, but haven't been inspired lately to do so. I would like to meet someone 48-56,preferably tall.I say tall, I am attracted to large guys. No offense intended, it is just my personal preference.I am 5 ft tall weigh 110 lbs. Love nice clothes, it is a weakness. Lol. Enjoy nice dinners at nice restaurants. I am interested in doing new things, possibly a little on the edge. I like cooking and enjoy being cooked for as well. I would enjoy meeting an intelligent fun guy with no baggage. Grandchildren a plus. Ex wives not a plus, lol. Like short trips, enjoy animals. I am not judgmental, would like someone educated, with new things I may learn from them. Good conversation, down to earth, financially stable. Would not consider a meeting a real date, just a get acquainted meeting. Just looking for a nice rounded individual with good sense of humor. With a kind understanding disposition. What may I learn from you? Something new and interesting, no players please I am in no mood for games. Make me laugh, make me smile, I love good humored people that can take a joke. Tease me I can take it, and give back as good as I get. I'm open for good conversation that is stimulating and fun. No perverts, you may end up like the village eunuch I'm not used to that crap and don't have time for such. Gimme a break please. It's a thinker though, duh. I love to cook, especially if others find it enjoyable and appreciate it with a clean plate. I know my way around the kitchen very well even if I need a stool to reach in the cabinets. I think my epitaph will say, "She cooked, she cleaned, she sewed." LOL, oh and she worked outside the home for 25 years, yes been there done that too. I suppose my weakness now would be is, that I was sheltered and protected from the ugly things in this world today, but am learning, and must say I am appalled by some of what I see. I'm just a stereotypical southern belle type, show me pretty and I will swoon, show me ugly and I will run. Send me a message

For a first date, well that would have to follow just some friendly meetings over coffee or something of that nature. But a first date that would be a difficult one, something we would find mutually enjoyable. A nice dinner somewhere with great food, conversation, and would like to hear about what he does versus talking on and on about me. Like strolling around flea markets, preferably when not too hot. Things that are turn offs, messy man filth lol. Over indulgence in alcohol, smoking ok, since I smoke which I know is a turn off for some people and I do not blame them it is a bad habit. Like extroverts but not someone on ritilan. I like manly men but not of the redneck type. I am a good listener and enjoy hearing about other peoples' adventures. Just a kind big hearted guy I am open to going fishing, but not thrilled about baiting the hook or removing the fish, but love to cook and and eat them. A computer savvy guy would be nice. A good buddy and friend, sensitive to my needs as I would be theirs. Just a good humored out going fella. A healthy eater. Dependable, with a plan, not a wilily nilly indecisive person. Just someone to make me laugh, as I have a good sense of humor. Not opposed to attending church on occasion. Truthfulness a big plus. No games, such as head games. A go with the flow guy with the ability to discuss deep subjects as well as silly things. Tell me what you do, I don't get out much, but I clean up well. LOL !!






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